Q1. Hello, can you please introduce yourself? Readers would love to know more about you.
A1 Hello, my name is Antonia Agbonkpolor. I’m a wife, mother of two sons, and an accountant by profession. I recently transitioned into the world of writing and published my first book, SPEAK Life: Healing the Hurt of Verbal Abuse. Through my work as a finance business partner and my passion for helping others, I founded Antonia Creative Writings, a ministry dedicated to using the power of words to uplift and heal. This book is part of that vision.
Q2. What were the key challenges you faced while writing your book SPEAK Life: Healing the Hurt of Verbal Abuse?
A2 One of the main challenges I faced was hearing the stories of people who had endured verbal abuse. Many individuals shared with me how hurtful words impacted their confidence, self-esteem, and mental well-being. Listening to their experiences was difficult, but it became my motivation to transform their pain into a message of healing. Putting their emotions and struggles into words that could comfort others required sensitivity and a deep understanding of their emotional journey.
Q3. What books or authors have most influenced your own writing?
A3 I’ve been influenced by authors like Joyce Meyer, particularly her book Battlefield of the Mind, which opened my eyes to the power of thoughts and words. I also admire Max Lucado, whose ability to communicate profound truths in a simple, relatable way has greatly shaped my approach to writing about faith and healing.
Q4. What’s your favourite spot to visit in your own country? And what makes it so special to you?
A4 I love visiting spas for relaxation or spending time by the seaside. There’s something soothing about the sound of the waves and the calm of the ocean. The beach is a place where I can unwind, reflect, and find peace, which helps rejuvenate my mind and spirit.
Q5. What inspired you to write the book SPEAK Life: Healing the Hurt of Verbal Abuse?
A5 The inspiration for SPEAK Life came from a burden I’ve carried for years, after listening to numerous people who have been affected by verbal abuse. Hearing their stories and understanding the impact it had on their lives especially their confidence and self-worth moved me deeply. I felt called to write this book to help others heal from the wounds inflicted by words and find strength through faith. I also believe this book is also important for the coming up generation to spread awareness of the importance of speaking positively into their lives and the lives of their family.
Q6. How long did it take you to write your book SPEAK Life: Healing the Hurt of Verbal Abuse?
A6 It took me about a month to write SPEAK Life. The ideas had been on my mind for a long time, and I had done some research beforehand. Once I sat down to write, the process was relatively fast because the message was clear, and I was eager to share it.
Q7. On what platforms can readers buy your books?
A7 My book SPEAK Life is available on platforms like Amazon and soon to be on Barnes & Noble, and it will be available on Waterstones as well. Currently, readers can purchase it in both paperback and e-book formats.
Q8. Tell us about the process of coming up with the book cover and the title SPEAK Life: Healing the Hurt of Verbal Abuse?
A8 The title SPEAK Life is inspired by Proverbs 18:21, which states, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” I wanted the title to reflect the power our words have to either build up or tear down. The cover of the book features a silhouette of my face, which symbolizes the personal connection I have with the topic, as well as the broader message of identity and healing that the book conveys.
Q9. When writing a book how do you keep things fresh, for both your readers and also yourself?
A9 I keep things fresh by drawing from real-life stories and personal experiences, which ensures that my writing feels authentic. Prayer and reflection also play a huge role in the process, helping me stay connected to the message I want to share. Additionally, I make an effort to write in a conversational tone to keep the content engaging for readers.
Q10. What is the most valuable piece of advice you’ve been given about writing?
A10 The most valuable piece of advice I’ve received is to write from the heart and not worry about perfection. Authenticity resonates more with readers than anything else. When your writing comes from a place of purpose and passion, it speaks directly to the soul.
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